How to Raise a Child Who Loves Books

Key Takeaway

You already have what it takes to raise a reader. Your voice, your time, and your presence matter more than doing it “right.”

What Actually Matters

Start Early. Even If You Feel Silly

Read when you’re pregnant. Read to your newborn. Start later. It all counts. Babies love your voice more than the story.

Put Books Where Life Happens

Place books where your baby or child is already. On the floor. In baskets. Next to the couch. When books are part of a child’s space, they become part of everyday life.

Your Energy Matters

If you’re excited, your child will feel it. You don’t need to perform or read perfectly. Calm and comfortable is enough.

Be the Example

Let your child see you reading. Kids notice more than we think, and they’re always copying what they see us do.

Follow Their Interests

As they grow, let their interests lead. Trucks, animals, silly topics. It doesn’t have to be “educational” to be valuable.

Silly Words Are Not a Waste

Rhymes, made-up words, and nonsense might sound silly, but they help children hear patterns in language. That’s part of how speech and vocabulary develop.

Why Books Help Now and Later

Reading together does more than build a love of books and create closeness or bonding. Over time, it helps children:

• Hear and learn new words

• Build the foundation for speech and vocabulary

• Find words for big feelings

• Think ahead and problem-solve

• Practice listening and turn-taking

• Talk about things that can be hard to bring up

  
  

Those small everyday moments really add up. Children who have more back-and-forth conversations with adults when they’re little tend to have stronger language skills later.

When Kids Are Older

Don’t Force It

Forcing reading often does the opposite of what we want. Pull back if needed. The interest can come back later.

Talk More Than You Read

Pause. Wonder out loud. Connect the story to their life. Talking about the book matters more than finishing it.

Take the Story Off the Page

Draw it. Act it out. Cook something from it. Books don’t have to end when the pages end.

One Last Thing

Reading together is one of the easiest ways to encourage a lifetime love for reading.

It’s never too late. Not for babies. Not for toddlers.

Not for big kids who swear they don’t like reading.

Start where you are.